realised that i'll start blogging whenever i had to study for exams or rush an assignment... doesnt sound fantastic but at least i've blogged... haha...
i've just attended a wedding (again!) last evening... it's adel & vin's... they had been together for donkey years and of course what they've went through wasnt as easy as the 220 guests would be able to visualised through a night of lavish gourmet & tonnes of beers...
traditional fishbowl: contractual! groom who signed this contract previously must fulfil its terms!!!! disgusting!
my perspective - couples staying together would require being true to each other. in the past, i thought it would be easy... but as you grow wiser, things become more complex... given the fact that you need to grapple the thin line drawn mid of sharing everything and respecting individual privacy... that's tough...
i'm always amazed that some guys shared their facebook/email/other personal login passwords with their galfriends... its an exaggerated fact that i knew some couples are up to... but never did i request tt in past r/s cos I believed that all of us out there need to have our own space to breathe in...
on the contrary, these 3 years, i've learnt that if you are really with someone, there is seriously a baseline to understand the person you are hanging out with, be it a friend, family, boyfriend, spouse or whom so ever close to you... otherwise, why hangout? there is no reason one should guess what the other party had done and act nonchalantly when there are spots of evidence driving u to think otherwise...
Although there is no way this should cross my mind if the intent is to look for someone to share the rest of your life with, be able to trust each other, depend on each other... BUT i must admit that it's real difficult for me to bare my heart out when always speculating if there is even a slight chance of getting hurt.
Solemn vows that the newly wed had made seems to knock some sense in me... i must learn to be true to what i do, to my friends, family and ppz i meet... MUST do this before i can receive positive reciprocals... it's a tough but what in life is not! :)
muackalattes dYnelle huang = mugger + worker + lover ;) 
